I demand a A ROOM OF MY OWN. Is that a crime???
In my house there are five bedrooms and i have no room of my own.
How ridiculous is that?
Am thinking the same.
One bedroom for me, sis and mom(common room), another for grandparents, other one for house maid, another for only dad and mom again, other one a small library cum past study room of my sis, so where will i be?
Don't you think that a girl going to be 23 years old, deserve a room of her own?
A girl certainly need a room of her own.
All parents may not realise how hard it is for teenagers and young adults.
Small problems become bigger in front of them, with no one to properly guide with loving and tender words, finding hard to carry studies and stress, and parents expectations kept on them, truly they become somewhat mad, and show that whenever they can.
I know that parents have no first hand experience of parenting before their kids are born, so children can not expect, so perfect parenting from, and they recognize the love, potential, and good hearts of their parents only when they become adults or matured. Meantime, the time would have seeped out of their hands.
Living life is not that easy.
If all those who have problems, sufferings, sadness, worries decided to die, then earth would have no humans.
The kids should be brought up with EQ (Emotional quotient) along with IQ (Intelligence Quotient).
I can now say i have enough of EQ, am sure i have less IQ :p
I can say this because, i have no plans to quit my life.
Hope keeps me stable, whenever i feel sick of the world around me.
My parents would have thought that i should not have borne to them, or that i was swapped in hospital, and that i am someones child, i have heard my mum say that.
All mothers of famous personalities would have thought that.
But yes, they will know that they are lucky, at some point of their life. Because their offspring, think differently, they like to know the world in another terms, they know that there is god within them, and not outside them, also they believe that they have some crucial role to play to change the world or the bad mind sets of people.
So coming to room of ones own, yeah, that's an allusion to Virginia Woolf's critical writing, A Room of One's Own. What she said in it, is absolutely right. Women need a room of their own, and of course some finance to fire the creativity inside them.
I need a room of my own
To fill the air in it with my dreams
To wet the walls with my dynamic tears
To hide the desires never let to speak of
To let my smell infuse to the lifeless bed
To growl loudly when remorse pokes, and nightmares pops up
To enact a days tediousness and newly met people
To rehearse tending to a baby
To clutch on to the pillow when am lonely and need a hug
To lie down piercing my nose, eyes and ears when thunder strikes
To dance to songs sung by others,
To sing alone in the room as the walls won't kick me out.
To paint my fantasies on to the wall
To put up photo frames
To kick the wall, when am angry at someone
I really really need a room of my own
To keep the room untidy
To scatter my favourite books
To kiss my past, present and future
Plenty of reasons.
All future parents or those currently in that post, assign your daughter or son a room of their own.
Daughters, if they do not have a room of their own in their own house, then they will never ever have one, because after sending off them to another in the name of idiotic marriage, then they will have a room only to share with their husband. She will have to wait for another life to have one.
Not all would be thirsty to have one of their own.
If i dont not get one, then i will go finding a home of my own, can anyone stop me, blame me, all i ask for is a room of my own.
I need to sleep in it reading a thriller novel.
Fall asleep in tune to my favourite music.
I have never owned a room, in these 22 years i have breathed.
Am happy my parents did not abandon me, they had always held me tightly even after i had done what no one ever does. That's another problem, i now want to leave that hard clasps of parental love, and fly and return whenever i want to.
Craving for peace, a room, a guide, a life-balancer (if available).
Parents of this generation should not expect much from their children. Let them choose their career, if they chose wrong, that's not the end, can take a road of diversion and reach a better place with more rigid earthly experience. Experience is the only good teacher. Let your kids do mistakes, and learn from it. Send them to learn swimming, dancing, singing, drawing, embroidery, carpentry or whatever, try to keep them always busy, because devil creeps in to the minds of those who have nothing to do(one like myself).
Be ready to see inter-community, interstate, international wed-locks, after all we are in a globalised world, relations are also on the way to that, we are taught to think globally.
Stop looking at them! Start feeling their hearts...
How ridiculous is that?
Am thinking the same.
One bedroom for me, sis and mom(common room), another for grandparents, other one for house maid, another for only dad and mom again, other one a small library cum past study room of my sis, so where will i be?
Don't you think that a girl going to be 23 years old, deserve a room of her own?
A girl certainly need a room of her own.
All parents may not realise how hard it is for teenagers and young adults.
Small problems become bigger in front of them, with no one to properly guide with loving and tender words, finding hard to carry studies and stress, and parents expectations kept on them, truly they become somewhat mad, and show that whenever they can.
I know that parents have no first hand experience of parenting before their kids are born, so children can not expect, so perfect parenting from, and they recognize the love, potential, and good hearts of their parents only when they become adults or matured. Meantime, the time would have seeped out of their hands.
Living life is not that easy.
If all those who have problems, sufferings, sadness, worries decided to die, then earth would have no humans.
The kids should be brought up with EQ (Emotional quotient) along with IQ (Intelligence Quotient).
I can now say i have enough of EQ, am sure i have less IQ :p
I can say this because, i have no plans to quit my life.
Hope keeps me stable, whenever i feel sick of the world around me.
My parents would have thought that i should not have borne to them, or that i was swapped in hospital, and that i am someones child, i have heard my mum say that.
All mothers of famous personalities would have thought that.
But yes, they will know that they are lucky, at some point of their life. Because their offspring, think differently, they like to know the world in another terms, they know that there is god within them, and not outside them, also they believe that they have some crucial role to play to change the world or the bad mind sets of people.
So coming to room of ones own, yeah, that's an allusion to Virginia Woolf's critical writing, A Room of One's Own. What she said in it, is absolutely right. Women need a room of their own, and of course some finance to fire the creativity inside them.
I need a room of my own
To fill the air in it with my dreams
To wet the walls with my dynamic tears
To hide the desires never let to speak of
To let my smell infuse to the lifeless bed
To growl loudly when remorse pokes, and nightmares pops up
To enact a days tediousness and newly met people
To rehearse tending to a baby
To clutch on to the pillow when am lonely and need a hug
To lie down piercing my nose, eyes and ears when thunder strikes
To dance to songs sung by others,
To sing alone in the room as the walls won't kick me out.
To paint my fantasies on to the wall
To put up photo frames
To kick the wall, when am angry at someone
I really really need a room of my own
To keep the room untidy
To scatter my favourite books
To kiss my past, present and future
Plenty of reasons.
All future parents or those currently in that post, assign your daughter or son a room of their own.
Daughters, if they do not have a room of their own in their own house, then they will never ever have one, because after sending off them to another in the name of idiotic marriage, then they will have a room only to share with their husband. She will have to wait for another life to have one.
Not all would be thirsty to have one of their own.
If i dont not get one, then i will go finding a home of my own, can anyone stop me, blame me, all i ask for is a room of my own.
I need to sleep in it reading a thriller novel.
Fall asleep in tune to my favourite music.
I have never owned a room, in these 22 years i have breathed.
Am happy my parents did not abandon me, they had always held me tightly even after i had done what no one ever does. That's another problem, i now want to leave that hard clasps of parental love, and fly and return whenever i want to.
Craving for peace, a room, a guide, a life-balancer (if available).
Parents of this generation should not expect much from their children. Let them choose their career, if they chose wrong, that's not the end, can take a road of diversion and reach a better place with more rigid earthly experience. Experience is the only good teacher. Let your kids do mistakes, and learn from it. Send them to learn swimming, dancing, singing, drawing, embroidery, carpentry or whatever, try to keep them always busy, because devil creeps in to the minds of those who have nothing to do(one like myself).
Be ready to see inter-community, interstate, international wed-locks, after all we are in a globalised world, relations are also on the way to that, we are taught to think globally.
Stop looking at them! Start feeling their hearts...
yeaa...very true..sis..!!!
ReplyDeletebt i na hd dat room..it ws jus ma stdy durin ma boards if u rmbr..ws nva allwd to sleep..or be myslf der..!!
Yup, but all addresses that room as yours, i know even u have no single room here at indheevaram
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