Patching up a broken heart
From ages we hear that everything happens for a reason.
I try to think over and over why then some relationships do not work out.
Oops, I am not Carrie Bradshaw.
okay, back to the point.
some just flops and why? Because one does not deserve each other.
We will be running to man/woman who promises to marry you. How many keeps it?
For some good reasons it just goes in the air, unknown by none.
And when u marry, why even that doesn't work out?
is marriage failure a reason, good reason to make us strong.
the worst of all, to see your lovely ex falling in love or marrying another pretty human being.
is it jealousy or envy that takes sleeps of ours in such a situation?
to see her or him being with another person.
i wish all learn the art of apathy.
hating wont do, keeping in touch deprives the happiness of the present and gives utter confusion.
Apathy makes u better. I lack it this time.
seeing the person u love with someone else even in a photo will kill your heart and all the joy to come.
how to avoid it? many ways are there...it will come hunting u...inevitable however hard u try.
to love the one besides u now in every sense is all one can do. it will be difficult...i know.
to face the reality you must be extra strong. Soothe yourself...that person with whom u couldn't be together till death is still living a life, isn't that a good reason to put on a smile. imagine him to be dead...u wouldn't be able to bear if u really loved. that person too would have undergone hard times to overcome the memories about u. You really know that memories are a bloody bitch...it lingers around to catch your neck and drain your blood.
i am frightened of good memories and dreams we see together. Shattered for the people we love, by the people who love us.
When the magnets draws in the soul mates, what should be put in the field to cut the attraction?
i wish i had a book that could take my questions and answer me.
something did not work out for good, i very well know.
some don't work so that u are deprived of complete happiness. Sorrows remains inactive then, and when the right time comes it will wake up and take a giant shape, and can even push you to dark hopeless crevasse. Fingers crossed.
p.s 1. for those born in Kerala, u can not easily escape this. I wish I could fly to some other land and live for few months until I can pull myself together
2. u may feel to take alcohol...avoid it, some one else need u.
3. do not drink tea or coffee...will aid insomnia at these times.
4. watch movies, don't read books, your mind will imagine things u never want to.
5. listen to good songs, by heart the lyrics and sing it.
6. cook- best of all to lessen the pain
7. put up a smile else u will forget how to smile.
8. watch Sex and the City in the morning.
9. imagine the wedding of your ex and make sure u completely believe it is gonna happen, else u will have fake expectations. Wish them the best and all happiness.
10. if u think u r a machine who made ur ex ready for a wedding, be proud of yourself.
11. the last- never suppress your cry- u can let it out only by crying- u will miss your love, imagine u give a punch on the face
confirm that your happiness is not decided by others. no one can upset u without your consent. (sadly it doesn't work always)
****writing it out on a blog can give a sound sleep****
I try to think over and over why then some relationships do not work out.
Oops, I am not Carrie Bradshaw.
okay, back to the point.
some just flops and why? Because one does not deserve each other.
We will be running to man/woman who promises to marry you. How many keeps it?
For some good reasons it just goes in the air, unknown by none.
And when u marry, why even that doesn't work out?
is marriage failure a reason, good reason to make us strong.
the worst of all, to see your lovely ex falling in love or marrying another pretty human being.
is it jealousy or envy that takes sleeps of ours in such a situation?
to see her or him being with another person.
i wish all learn the art of apathy.
hating wont do, keeping in touch deprives the happiness of the present and gives utter confusion.
Apathy makes u better. I lack it this time.
seeing the person u love with someone else even in a photo will kill your heart and all the joy to come.
how to avoid it? many ways are there...it will come hunting u...inevitable however hard u try.
to love the one besides u now in every sense is all one can do. it will be difficult...i know.
to face the reality you must be extra strong. Soothe yourself...that person with whom u couldn't be together till death is still living a life, isn't that a good reason to put on a smile. imagine him to be dead...u wouldn't be able to bear if u really loved. that person too would have undergone hard times to overcome the memories about u. You really know that memories are a bloody bitch...it lingers around to catch your neck and drain your blood.
i am frightened of good memories and dreams we see together. Shattered for the people we love, by the people who love us.
When the magnets draws in the soul mates, what should be put in the field to cut the attraction?
i wish i had a book that could take my questions and answer me.
something did not work out for good, i very well know.
some don't work so that u are deprived of complete happiness. Sorrows remains inactive then, and when the right time comes it will wake up and take a giant shape, and can even push you to dark hopeless crevasse. Fingers crossed.
p.s 1. for those born in Kerala, u can not easily escape this. I wish I could fly to some other land and live for few months until I can pull myself together
2. u may feel to take alcohol...avoid it, some one else need u.
3. do not drink tea or coffee...will aid insomnia at these times.
4. watch movies, don't read books, your mind will imagine things u never want to.
5. listen to good songs, by heart the lyrics and sing it.
6. cook- best of all to lessen the pain
7. put up a smile else u will forget how to smile.
8. watch Sex and the City in the morning.
9. imagine the wedding of your ex and make sure u completely believe it is gonna happen, else u will have fake expectations. Wish them the best and all happiness.
10. if u think u r a machine who made ur ex ready for a wedding, be proud of yourself.
11. the last- never suppress your cry- u can let it out only by crying- u will miss your love, imagine u give a punch on the face
confirm that your happiness is not decided by others. no one can upset u without your consent. (sadly it doesn't work always)
****writing it out on a blog can give a sound sleep****
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